“Your purpose amplifies your identity. It makes you more of who you are because you’re working in your identity through your purpose.” -Steven Kuhn

 

Our title or position is not who we are— that’s what we do. We all go through phases where we feel like we should act or speak a certain way to avoid offending someone. But living in a period when opinions matter more than authenticity and trends try to shape our identity is a specially crucial time to stay true to ourselves. 

When we own our identity, we are empowered to do great things. We know who we are and what we stand for. We don’t shy away from our quirks and flaws, rather, we embrace them because they make us unique. We become a force to be reckoned with and we don’t need the approval of others to feel good about ourselves.

But showing up our true selves is never easy. If it is, then everybody will be doing it. So, how do we go about owning our identity?

This week, I got to sit down with business advisor, author, and speaker Steven Kuhn and his partner, Olga. Steven and Olga are both powerful individuals and together they’re making a difference by uplifting others to a higher frequency.  

In this episode, we discuss how we can navigate the journey of finding ourselves and owning our identity. We also talked about projecting our presence, the connection between our identity and purpose, being powerful from within, handling difficult conversations, and the 5 models that can help us build a solid foundation from Steve’s book, Unleash Your Humble Alpha.

 

Connect The Modern Man:

 

Highlights: 

  • 02:57 The Humble Alpha Mentality
  • 07:01 Who Are You?  
  • 13:42 Powerful From Within
  • 18:01 Own Who You Are
  • 25:25 How to Handle Uncomfortable Conversations
  • 28:25 The Connection Between Identity and Purpose
  • 34:56 The HITQL Model 
  • 39:18 Recap

 

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Quotes: 

03:03 “It’s actually more of an attitude than it is an action.” -Steven Kuhn

06:20 “You create the world that you want. Don’t fit yourself into the world that they have.” -Steven Kuhn

07:36 “Most people take their identity from a title, a position, or a career. That’s not who you are. That’s what you do.” -Steven Kuhn

10:39 “Presence comes from being present. Being present is showing up wholly and fully for the person in front of you with no preconceived notions or cookie cutter solutions and no expectation or a specific outcome.” -Steven Kuhn 

15:33 “Everything is within. The outside is less powerful if you don’t have it on the inside.” -Steven Kuhn

18:52 “When you love yourself and you accept who you are, the world around you agrees with you because that’s the energy that you’re giving off.” -Steven Kuhn 

21:06 “A correct partner can elevate certainty 100% more.” -Olga

27:59 “Identity is the start. People need to know who they are, what their values are, what their purpose is, and what they’re driven to do is, and then around that craft a vision and a direction in which to go because we don’t want to be stuck.” -Ted Phaeton

28:54 “Your purpose amplifies your identity. It makes you more of who you are because you’re working in your identity through your purpose.” -Steven Kuhn

32:02 “A lot of us don’t want to offend anybody with who we are… That’s more manipulative than the person who is fully themselves because you’re doing that for a perceived outcome than being authentic.”-Ted Phaeton

40:52 “Find that purpose, let it amplify who you are, and give that gift to the world because the world deserves it and you deserve all the gifts that come back with reciprocity from being authentically and truly yourself.” -Ted Phaeton

 

Meet Steven: 

Steven Kuhn is a business advisor, author, and speaker who has been hand-picked to consult with some of the most influential people in the world (rock stars, singers, actors, business leaders, and politicians) about how to build value and loyalty and develop strategies for increasing beneficial relationships and achieving true Quality of Life (QOL).

Steven hails from Pennsylvania USA and served in the U.S. Army from 1986 -1993 in Germany and one tour as a Sergeant in Iraq. Upon discharge from the military, Kuhn continued to live in Europe where he later became a best-selling author, a multi-country business turnaround leader, Political Consultant and completed his MBA at the prestigious Bradford University School of Business Management in Leeds, U.K. 

Together with his co-author he wrote the book “Unleash Your Humble Alpha” which shows readers how to own their presence in life and become the epic leader they are meant to be.

The book is the basis for all they do including the newest trademarked Paradigm Upgrade System and University Curriculum based on their book at the Forbes School of Business and Technology as well as numerous other Universities. 

Steven is speaking on Owning your Presence – and how life’s biggest questions often have simple answers